Daily Channeling - Sept 14, 2009.
June - What is the best way to recover from a loss?
"The Guides" -* The best way is to acknowledge it fully, not to try to minimize the hurt by regressing into anger. This is not to say that people are not sometimes angry at what they call "fate", but anger just delays the release of the pain that the loss caused.
June- So feeling embarrased for having loved and lost, or humiliated is also delaying the relief from the pain?
"The Guides" -* Humiliation or embarrassment are not really relevant for loving is never something to be ashamed about. Even if it is not reciprocated or it ends. Loving is a gift just as big if not bigger than being loved.
June- So you are saying that there is no way to do it better the next time so as not to be hurt?
"The Guides"- * Again we repeat, life is not a competition or a test, it is an opportunity to love and to experience love. Love has many faces and all of them are worth experiencing in this dimension. Think of love as a spice box, with so many different tastes and flavors. You were blessed to have loved the way you did and still do. That is another important point, do not think you need to work to stop loving someone, after they have left you. Let the love be, cry for the loss, and be happy you experienced such love.
June- This helps. Thank you.
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