Channeling Sessions with June Can

Daily Channeling for March 25, 2010

June: How can two people see the same situation totally differently?

* Why that is the secret of the universe, the key to all mystery and magic.

June: I know there are different dimensions, but this is different, these are totally different perspectives.

* We wanted it to be interesting and intricate. Think for example, when a person views the sea from a mountain, or from the beach. It totally depends where you are, how you see things.

June: And in this particular situation, how you feel about yourself in that area.

* Can you be more specific?

June: Someone I barely knew, but do like, asked me to lend her/him money and I freaked out.

*Why?

June: Because my thoughts immediately ran to I am being used, and I am not safe.

*Well you know where that comes from.

June: Yes, but I realized later that I could have just said no, one word sentence, but because I felt bad about my reaction, I tried to make her/him see that they were wrong to have asked me. And they weren't, they were simply asking if I could loan them money.

* Well, here is a beautiful example of self awareness AND self acceptance. In this case you were aware of your fear, but did not accept it. You had no compassion for yourself and therefore you "attacked" the other, to silence your bad feelings about yourself. Like how dare he/she put me in this situation?

June: So you are saying that the next time I can choose to say no and not feel guilty or bad about myself, right, that is a given.

* Of course, but that will not happen so fast. Next time you might feel guilty but you will then say to yourself "It is okay to feel scared, and I respect my feelings and can choose to heal/release them."

June: So it is about me, and not the person who asked me for money.

* Always. It is through your own self knowledge that you will be most sensitive to others. Saying no politely would have been fine because the question had either a yes or no answer, and you are always always free to choose your own answer, that is a given too. And you know that your answers in your life were not always respected to say the least.

June: Yes, so acknowledging that I can say yes or no, and I am still safe, is a good thing to remember and integrate now as part of my healing.

* We think first you need to forgive yourself. And then second, you neeed to thank the universe for bringing you a person who taught you this lesson about yourself and money.

June: I did see another person's view of money, and it was totally different to mine. She/he can take more risks than I ever have, and live happily with that, be able to breathe!

* Isn't that a gift, to meet a person who is relaxed about money and who can see it as an energy, that comes and goes freely for real?

June: Yes, I realized how tight I was about money yesterday.

*Beautiful, what a gift, to see it and choose to release it if you wish.

June: I have seen so many people so stressed out about money, that I didn't learn any other way to deal with it.

*Yes, but now you are conscious, aware, so much so that the universe brought you this relaxed about money person, to let you learn other ways of dealing with money, or feeling about money. The nitty gritty of daily dealing with money, not just the philosophical approach and wish.

June: I am still trying to wrap my mind around the concept of money as energy, like water flowing.

*Well this is why the universe met you up with the daily reality of money flowing, and part of that is the giving and taking of money between people.

June: Trust seemed to be a good big part of it too.

* Do not chastise yourself that you did not trust this person enough yet to lend him/her money. Again here is where you have the freedom to decide what you trust about them, whenever you choose, or feel it. There are no musts about trust, it goes against the whole idea of trust. Trust is like the ivy growing up on the trunk and branches of a tree, does it happen overnight? It happens very slowly, gently and gradually, and that is the same way between people. Little children are born trusting but when that is broken they learn to be more careful and slow, if they choose at all to trust again. Pat yourself on the shoulder that you are even contemplating trusting another human being. We think that is grand.

June: But maybe someone else would have acted better, or rather differently.

*We are glad you corrected yourself, for here again comes the trusting of yourself, your own processes, and your own self love as you heal. Remember another thing, at this stage of the game, everyone is healing, even those who ask you for money.

June: Can I show her/him this posting as an explanation?

* Yes, certainly.

June: Thanks alot.

* You are most welcome, and know that in your candid story, you have allowed many others to learn about themselves too.

June: That is gratifying.