Channeling Sessions with June Can

Daily Channeling for Jan 7, 2011

June: My dogs are in the car, waiting for their outing, and I wanted to ask for some words this morning, because a snow storm is coming and that means staying in alot, and I always find it easier to stay in when I am in a good place inside myself.

* What is going on inside?

June: generation gap

* and?

June: feelings about myself in it

* Do you know what the generation gap really is?

June: no, this is the first time I am really feeling it

* It is the realization that you are older, in a different place and really do not want to run to try and keep up with the youth, it is unnatural that youth rules the world today, or at least the fantasy of youth. Youth was never supposed to be in a ruling position, and it is only the rebellions of the youth having got out of hand, that kind of tipped the scales for future generations, and of course the morbid fear of death so many people in your culture have.

June: Yes, part of me feels like it isn't right, it doesn't feel right to me today.

* There is also another thing, the youth today feels that the grownups have messed things up quite a bit, so it is hard for them to respect all older people as a generation in their thoughts, in their actions maybe yes, but not in their thoughts.

June: It could also be the youth having pain seeing their parents getting older, the separation issues.

*Yes it is also that, but what is important for you is to see the situation as it is, and to live your life in full swing according to where YOU ARE, and not to try anymore to compensate or compromise your day for your kids. Those days are gone and over. It is your time, as it is their time, and this means that you will not be connected at the hip anymore, and the sooner everyone realizes and accepts this, the better off you all will be.

June: Yes, the whole dynamic with your kids changes, when they are older

*The dynamic with your kids was always changing, but when you actually lived with them daily,  you were aware of it. Now that you have not lived with them for a few years, you come back to the meeting with the last memories of your living together. Both you and your kids have changed, moved, grown and expanded. It just takes time to catch up on both sides, and maybe next time you will have an update before you meet. Questions such as : What is new and good in your life since I lived with you last? What is important to you in your daily schedule? Where do you see yourself now in our relationship? What has changed for you in your perspective of our relationship?

June: WOW, good stuff.

* Even better if you agree to use it. No fear, adjusting relationships only means shedding light on them and making everyone less uptight.

June: Okay, will do it.

*Good. This will be helpful to many of your parent readers. You are not alone in these situations and awakenenings.

June: Thank You!

*You are welcome.