Channeling Sessions with June Can

Daily Channeling for July 1, 2010

June: Can you talk more about families?

* Why of course. What would you like to know?

June: I am beginning to feel that cosy feeling again, and revel in it.

*and?

June: I wonder why so many families have so much pain.

* Because things fester and develop in unhealthy ways. The family in society today, at least in the Western society is a closed unit without any real outside inspection or regulation. And when people become unbalanced, their families suffer, and if no help arrives, things just grow. So much so, that children leave the minute they can, and carry that hurt to their own eventual families, if the hurt has not been cured.

June: But surely there is love in each family.

*Love means very different things to many different people. Love can mean control, love can mean dominance, love can mean unhealthy boundaries.

June: But surely the family unit will continue into the future.

*Yes, it will, but there will be a lot repeat a lot more transparency, as there begins to be in everything today. The family too shall no more be allowed to fester in private, because people in general will care about their societies and see the importance in the health of each and every family unit.

June: What makes a family healthy?

* The simple answer is healthy people. The more complicated answer is "a group of people bound by common agreement, working for the benefit of all in the unit with no one excluded."

June: That sounds really good to me, I noticed as I received your words, that the word "exclusion" was painfully relevant. People who are different or misunderstood in the family are excluded in many ways, sometimes physically, sometimes energetically. It is almost like they get less love.

*Tell us more.

June: Well I see now that over the years, I have met people who felt different and alone in their families. And the family unit because it is the first one each and every one of us belongs to, is very important for our learning about ourselves in relation to other people. If we are accepted by our families, we feel accepted by other people outside of the family later on in life. If not, the opposite is true.

* There is also the whole side of people coming to teach each other things, and having the time and opportunity to learn about themselves and others through living with someone who is very different from them.

June: This is a heavy subject, it carries a lot of pain.

* Well you can personally remember and cherish the happy memories from your family, and not dwell or obsess over the others.

June: Yes, and I do not have to understand it all.

*Certainly not. One day at a time Little One, grow like a rose!