Channeling Sessions with June Can

Daily Channeling for Nov 1, 2009

June: What is the healing process after loss?

* What do you mean?

June: I do not believe anymore that there has to be bitterness or anger after a relationship ends, and I wonder how long it takes for the heart to heal from the pain of loss.

* Do you mean how long it takes to be open again for a new relationship?

June: Even the word open feels scary to me right now.

* Of course it does, because you were very open in your last relationship and you experienced what you felt was a great rejection.

June: Yes.

* Remember that you always advance if you are aware of your lessons in relationships. Seeing them as lessons, experiences filled with fond memories, allows you to know and trust that you will be more careful in some ways in your next relationship. You are not alone in this, and yes it does take time to process the relationship, and its lessons. The heart can be open immediately, it is the mind and ego that are wary, cautious and suspicious of getting a repeat of the last situation. The mind and ego work in gain and loss, the heart does not.

June: This all makes alot of sense to me. I feel a hesitation, and a certain desire to rest and process and rebalance myself.

* You are not out of balance, you are only processing and figuring out your current situation, not so much your past relationships.

June: You are right.

* That is okay, let your brain and mind do their thing and you can know that your heart is, and was, pure in its ability to love. This capacity is never lost, remember this. It is only the ego that hesitates and calculates.

June: I am glad my heart is okay!

* The human heart is a muscle, it contracts and releases all the time...